It’s all about the fair sex- Part 3

Books really aid you in every area of your life, don’t they? “Whatever ye shall seek, ye shall find”. I don’t know what I was seeking but I found ‘Men are from mars and women are from venus’. Trust me I have been reading a lot on life, truth, wisdom and other spiritual stuff. But whenever a beautiful feminine figure comes across my eyes everything (life, truth, wisdom and other spiritual stuff) takes a backseat. I mean ain’t it true that the greatest thing a man can ever win is a woman’s heart (yes heart and not what you were thinking you philanderer). Seriously I believe in this statement. For a man life is incomplete without a woman who can comfort him, trust him and love him like anything. And I am certainly astonished to find some unfeigned differences between the two sexes. I am really grateful to God for this book because I had been doing something which is strictly prohibited for men to do. According to John Gray whenever a woman/girl tells you her problem she is certainly not expecting you to give her a solution. I know this is something quite incoherent but that’s true. She just wants you to listen to her, validate her problem and empathize with her. While men behave exactly opposite of their expectations. Instead of validating the problem, men downsizes their problem and then tries to comfort them by giving her an exact solution as if she has asked him to tell her the y intercept of 4x + 5y +9 =0. Yes that’s what men do and it might infuriate women. Whenever we males confront a problem our only goal is to find its solution and we are able to relax only after solving it however frazzled it leaves you. But that’s not the case with the fair sex. On the other hand women feel relaxed just by talking about their problems, I know it sounds ridiculous but that’s the gospel truth with the Venusians. So next time you meet a girl and she tells you something which is bothering her do not try to wear the Mr. Fix it hat and solve her problem, Instead listen her, say something so as to validate her problem like that really is something bad and then try to