Life lessons from my first (unsuccesful) love

I don’t understand why love and intelligence are two different phenomenon. And then there is religion. Why there are so many complications in our lives. Beauty is a reason enough to fall in love with someone. Beauty of heart, of soul and not only physical beauty. I had this creed but I don’t follow it anymore. Intelligence has to be involved in love. Truly speaking I do not want it to be like this. Can’t people be with each other just because they love each other? Ain’t love above everything? I do not think so because if it were things would have been quite different. You need a lot of understanding. Understanding now another heavy word. And understanding comes with equal mental level. And I always thought that something like equal mental level can never come in the description of love or of relationships. But I was wrong. I was no more than a tyro in the art of love. I think I am still a tyro in the art of life. (May be I should join shri shri Ravi Shankar’s art of living) But I have been able to draw some conclusions. You want to fall in love with some one, STOP, first scrutinize her and check if she is intelligent, understanding, of your religion and finally if she is beautiful or not. You have to go through all these procedures and then fall in love otherwise your life will suck. Just like mine.

1) India 2) Pakistan 3) friendship. Odd one out.

Yesterday I was watching this channel NDTV 24*7. And there was this debate going on whether India should resume dialogue with Pakistan or not? That was a talk show. Now I must say that NDTV is a real news channel. If you are seeking comedy you should go for India TV but if you want real, serious news you should watch NDTV. So as you know I have a lot of interest in this matter, you know India, Pakistan and all. And I really thought that it is indispensable for me to share my thoughts on the same topic. Should India resume dialogue with Pakistan? My first reaction was f**k you Pakistan. No dialogue only war. Then I thought I am being insane. I can say that with little civility yaar. Okay serious. Do you really thing India and Pakistan after 60 years of cold and open war need a dialogue. India does not need any relation with Pakistan until they do what is beneficial not only for India but for Pakistan as well. Now pay a little load on your cerebrum and show some concern over these facts. 14 months have passed by Lakhvi is still a free man, hafiz saeed has been acquitted. Infiltrations have been going on incessantly. Isn’t this exasperating that after all this we still have talk shows in which experts discuss whether India should resume dialogue with Pakistan. To add to my plight some young minds from audience were saying Pakistan is just like India, we should help them. Oh really India should help Pakistan when pak has only one motive to demolish India. I mean that young guy crossed the height of insanity when he said that Pakistan is just like India. I accept the fact that not every one in Pakistan takes India as their enemy. I know there are people in Pakistan who are like us may be there are. But a country is not run by its people; a country is run by its government. And Pakistan is run by its military, its govt officials. And I am sure there is no one neither in Pakistani army nor in Pakistan govt who is thinking of peace with India. We (the people and the government of India) need to accept one truth that Pakistan takes India as their biggest enemy bigger than terrorism. Pakistan hate, sorry loathe India. And there can be no relation between India and Pakistan except enmity until Pakistan is willing to sabotage the terrorist camps which they have flourished in their soil as a means to carry out attacks against my great country India.

Its all about the fair sex part 2

why girls affect/effect ( i don't know which one is right) us boys so much? I mean why we do things just to make them happy? why can't girls let boys have a life. Is it indispensable to quit smoking and drinking? What's the harm in drinking. We love beer don't we and we love girls too. Beer never coaxes us to leave girls but why do girls cajole us for? For me its highly inscrutable. Do we boys have any problem with their garrulity? No we don't. Do we have problem with their inane nature? No we don't. Then why the hell these girls keep pestering us every now and then about the way we live our life. And the most astonishing thing is we pay so much attention to their superfluous complaints. I guess they have figured out that they rule the world and we boys will grovel for the sake of togetherness. Whatever i don't know but we depend on girls (i am not being henpecked na) and we if not willing then also not reluctant to change ourself for them. Girls rule! I accept!

Its 2010 happy new year.

Hi everyone. First things first. Happy new year to you all. This time I am really satisfied, I mean last year when 2008 ended I was feeling quite obnoxious. Reasons you all know there were around 5 despicable attacks on our soil by the invaders. It may come as an astonishment to you but when my countrymen die or suffer because of those people who don’t belong to India i get hurt seriously. But contrary to 2008 or other past years there wasn’t a single attack on my India. Thank you god for this. Though there were some grim situations for our neighbors, but haven’t you heard about this proverb – “whatever ye shall sow, ye shall reap”. I think almighty is taking good care of everything. Well there are other reasons for which I will remember this year like I come to know so many good people. I may not write their names because its not requisite. I was in love for about 11 months this year then I came out of it. I bettered my grades even. I read books which helped me with knowledge, wisdom, conscience etc. Truly speaking this year brought all the felicity which I wanted it to. I am not being complacent but I am just expressing my gratitude for all his love and blessings that I received last year. I came to know that I love writing and so I created a blog. I wish for all good things this year too. And I believe that when this year will end I will be more mature more knowledgeable and a better person than I am now. Once again happy new year.