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Friday, January 22, 2010

Life lessons from my first (unsuccesful) love

I don’t understand why love and intelligence are two different phenomenon. And then there is religion. Why there are so many complications in our lives. Beauty is a reason enough to fall in love with someone. Beauty of heart, of soul and not only physical beauty. I had this creed but I don’t follow it anymore. Intelligence has to be involved in love. Truly speaking I do not want it to be like this. Can’t people be with each other just because they love each other? Ain’t love above everything? I do not think so because if it were things would have been quite different. You need a lot of understanding. Understanding now another heavy word. And understanding comes with equal mental level. And I always thought that something like equal mental level can never come in the description of love or of relationships. But I was wrong. I was no more than a tyro in the art of love. I think I am still a tyro in the art of life. (May be I should join shri shri Ravi Shankar’s art of living) But I have been able to draw some conclusions. You want to fall in love with some one, STOP, first scrutinize her and check if she is intelligent, understanding, of your religion and finally if she is beautiful or not. You have to go through all these procedures and then fall in love otherwise your life will suck. Just like mine.

5 comments:

  1. Bhai i don't knw what to say...But do not change urself just because u've not won someone...Be proud of urself...Coz u have loved someone...

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  2. i completely agree with ankit except the last line.i think we should take utmost precautions and should not allow yourself to fall in love with some one you know cant be with u.Though i know this heart is GOOFY ,never follows the logical path always revels in brinkmanship and the repercussions a broken heart .Fuck u heart.Now what to do bro?.Its better to keep hatred as a shield if you want to save yourself .So hate girls...specially the one you like,though you would never achieve it and ONE more thing bro if you folow your list to find love,i think that would not be love as love is blind,deaf,dumb .hehe.never change yourself for some whore(mein teri vali to nahi sabhi ladkiyo ko gali de raha hu,hihi)and dont feel dejected for if you are rejected because she is giving you the opportunity to find someone who truly loves you the way you are.love you bro!!!!! be rocking and jovial always.

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  3. bhai..ye unsuccessful love kya hota hai..??

    "love" koi relative phenomena nhi hai...
    agar tu love se hurt hua hai..to it is just bcoz of ur expectection..frm her..

    love me success/unsuccess..profit/gain..jaisi cheeze include nhi hoti..

    agar main teri language me bolu..to..successful love is just a unconditional love..

    why u r so limited..break this boundary...no need to commitment for particular single girl..

    love is the property of ur soul..is per kisi ek ladki ka adhikar nhi hai..

    if u hav love in your heart then spread it...and allow ur heart to take decision not ur mind or intelligengy..

    i feel that HATE is still pure than love..
    so do love with the passion when u hate someone..ok

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  4. love doesn't mean to get marry or live together with your partner. if your love is true,don't expect anything frm her. U will surely love her forever. Abe lekin shaadi k baad bhul jana..

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